Love 2020

Gone are the days of chasing a girl. The time, when guys are ready to wait outside her window for her single glimpse. Gone is the eager to know her name even after threatened up by his brother. The happiness to describe one’s own love story to his best friend.

                        Gone are the days when your friends setup 

a whole team to collect information about your girl ranging from his tuition classes to his favorite golgappa center to make your love story successful. Gone are the days of true love. Single men and single woman type people are history now. Lovers are getting smarter these days. Now neither boy has time to chase a girl nor has the girl, to be chased. She is a 21^st century girl. A simple facebook friend request with some chirpy messages can do your work. Now five to ten days are enough to increase your mobile call timers from second to hours. There are so many things out there. Who has time to waste outside her window if you can get  her live video on your mobile the moment you want that.                      
                                 If anyone is shy or is not fast no one wants to be friends with him or her. Obviously you have other options available in the market with almost same tag why will you waste your time on a person like that.

                        People are not ready to commit too. Guys think that how can i commit, my whole carrier is in front of me. I have to do so many things in my life. How can I afford her I don’t even have a settled job and she is so expensive. This relationship is OK up to this limit only I can’t move forward. I can have better options in future it’s too early to decide.

                        On the other hand girls think that how can they commit this much insecure guy? His good looks and bike are good to make her colleagues jealous but he is a complete failure in his upcoming future. He can’t marry a guy who is not even sure about his goals in life. She can’t roam lifetime on a Yamaha a Mercedes is indeed the need.

 A friend of mine says that his girlfriend has dumped him just because he doesn't reply to her calls while he is with friends and she accused him of arrogance and selfishness. On the other hand an NIT graduate dumped his girl just because he doesn't have left things to talk on phone in his long distance relationship and he wants some new excitement in his life.                       

                                                      So does the meaning of love have changed? Are we really advanced? Or it’s just the Google calendar of your Smart phone who reminds you that. Is it so tough or almost impossible to find a perfect half for you? And if it is, then what’s the reason behind it? Why you are not sure about your partner even after your earlier two-three trials in the market. Is love just a game of testosterone and estrogen for you? And if it is like that then how long you think you can carry your valuable thoughts in your life. This time answer is yours.   

Thank you         

written by : Anand Ranjan